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Social Media and the Church- Part 4

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4. Proper Use of Social Media (safety)

We all have a personal identity (social security number, credit identity, etc) and social identity (facebook, twitter, etc). Those who have kids are very aware of their children and teens social identities because they have heard from the media how easily a hacker or predator can swoop in and convince good kids to do unsafe things.

Being safe online, whether it be making sure your credit is frozen so no one can steal your identity, or making sure you rotate passwords with email, Facebook, Twitter, Itunes, Amazon, Xbox Gamertags, Blogs or any other “accounts” you have out there is something that many of us forget to do.

Did you know that if you are playing Xbox live you can talk to millions of people all over the world because you might be playing a similar game online. I learned this from my nephews recently. As we played some games over Christmas I was stunned to hear language from others that was less than kind (you can mute them). I was also stunned at the realization that children and teens could have online, live discussions through headsets or even with the Xbox Connect (live video chat) with zero parental knowledge.

Social media and the way we connect will continue to evolve over time. There will always be new things coming and the way we as parents monitor the influences in the lives of children will need to change as well. There is no need to unplug your kids Xbox or other game system as of yet.
We will always need to renew our desire and passion for teaching kids and adults smart and healthy was of using social media.

You never really know who is at the other end of the line because anonymity is foundational to the online life for some.

Where does the church fit into this conversation?

We need to remain that light in the darkness and help people who have been scammed or hacked to walk with them through the process of healing and dealing with these issues.
The church must continue to provide a standard of leadership by which we do not judge others, but help identity healthy ways for us to use social media to share the gospel, help people connect and make a difference in this world.

Safety for many things in our lives is a big concern. With vigilance, a willingness to learn and lead in this area, we can better protect our kids, teens and ourselves from the dangers of the online life. Just like your regular life, there are similar people who push our buttons and attempt to drag us in the wrong direction.

Please keep your life whole. Do not fracture your life into many different worlds of work, church, online, personal, social, etc. Be yourself and be honest with others.

Go in peace and go with God.

Church Blog, Grace Church, Methodist

Social Media and the Church- Part 3

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3. Types of Tweeters or Twits

I’ve been on Twitter for less than a year. I have once opposed the micro posting, micro bogging, 140 character discussions with hashtags that seemed to give anyone and everyone a voice on anything and everything.
After using Twitter, I realized the error of my early thoughts.

There is a main Twitter feed of who you follow and then a list of what’s trending. Twitter uses hashtags # to begin a group conversation about and event or issue. You can search specific issues or events to see what people are saying. For our Annual Conference last year the hashtag was #moumc or #moumc11

When using Twitter beware and know that there are different types of folks on Twitter. There are many lists on the web about types of people who tweet, so I am borrowing a few and placing them here.

1. The guy or gal (teens) that don’t realize they have an open status and post terribly inappropriate stuff.
2. The business guy that has his Twitter set to send out tweets every 30 seconds (turns out to be noise, so no one really listens)
3. The political right and left tweeters
4. The company Tweets (usually promoted)
5. Christian tweeters (not all of them follow back- #fail)
6. Social Media giant tweeters (people who get this stuff)
7. Politicians (none do this well)
8. The unrelenting slam humorists (best to follow)
9. Actors (most are not funny or say anything interesting)
10. Singers/musicians/bands (usually fun to follow)
11. Local businesses
12. Local people who you will never meet but since you live in the KC area, so why not follow
13. New Organizations- favs WSJ, Washington Post, Huffington Post
14. Overseas guys and gals (you will never meet these either, but they live in england, etc and it’s cool to see what they have going on)
15. Pastors- Sadly, most pastors do not have a clue about Twitter or even Twitter etiquette- follow back, at least your own church members, geez)
16. People who retweet but don’t actually tweet
17. Inspirational/Philosophical Tweeters
18. Quote Tweeters- quote random things ALL THE TIME.
19. Writers, Bloggers, Authors- good to follow them- good insights, interesting stuff
20. The ____ Daily Is Out People- who write something every day, which you can take or leave
21. Fake Tweeters- Spambots- not a real person, just a program trying to get you to buy stuff
22. The buy my stuff because it’s a good deal
23. The buy my friends stuff, because I get a cut
24. The guy who has nothing else to do but sit around tweeting
25. Non-profit/issue oriented/church accounts- Not bad to see what other people are doing

I hope those make sense. Not an exhaustive list, but maybe that provides some insight on how Twitter can be a very cool way to connect or a colossal waste of time, just like Facebook.

Oh yeah, feel free to follow me on Twitter @umvickers

Go in peace and go with God.

Church Blog, Grace Church, Methodist

Social Media and the Post- Part 2

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Not Your Teens Facebook Anymore-

Some of you know that in the beginning, the only users that could actually access Facebook were students. You had to have the .edu at the end of your email address or you could not sign up. It started with college students, then high school students and so forth.

Then a few years ago Facebook opened up to the world and many Gen Xers and Gen Yers not in college jumped on. It was fun to connect with my camp counselors and the youth in our church. A bunch of my high school, college and seminary friends were immediately on and quickly found each other. Users jumped from several million to the hundreds of millions. Everyone was talking about Facebook. And it was still cool.

Then the high school and college students started to notice a disturbing trend- their parents were joining Facebook, and now their grandparents. And for most teens this was no big deal. They didn’t have anything to hide and were not posting anything too offensive. But for the others, the statements came like “Facebook was cool until my mom got on it”, or “there are too many old people (me included- I guess I’m old) on Facebook”. Some some of the younger generations ditched Facebook (not completely) and moved to Twitter. The only reason I’m on Twitter now is because some of our youth said I “needed” to be on Twitter if I was going to connect with the next generation.
And the other outlets are instagram, the path and tons of other places I have no connection to but I hear are the next great thing in social media.

Facebook is still hugely popular with new users every day. It may not be as cool as it once was, but it is still an amazing place to connect, share and build relationships. It’s virtual yes, but there is a whole world out there of social media that is helping build brands, churches, messages, ideas and to some extent, helping change the world.

We might not be able to reach the next generation like we once could through Facebook, but with 700 million active users in a world of 7 billion, that is a lot of people, especially in the US, that are on Facebook.

Go in peace and go with God.

Church Blog, Grace Church, Methodist

Social Media and the Church

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With the growth of Facebook and Twitter over the past few years, the church at some point and time needs to be mindful of the relevance and opportunities presented with such outlets for their evangelism, ministry and mission.

So over the next few weeks I will be writing about Social Media in regard to a few things:
1. What are Twitter and Facebook?
2. Not your Teen’s Facebook Anymore
3. Types of Tweeters or Twits
4. Proper use of Social Media (safety)
5. Public and Private Conversations
6. Pastoral Use of Social Media
7. It’s All About Connecting.

1. What Are Twitter and Facebook?

They are both web platforms for connecting with others.

Twitter has followers
Facebook has friends.

If you have never used either program Facebook- 700 million users, Twitter- 70 million active users, I would encourage you to jump on and sign up for either one today.

Facebook is like your own mini-website where you can share pictures, videos and status updates on your “wall”. Your wall is where you post stuff, and where others (depending on your settings) your friends can post stuff as well. There is also a stream of who you follow and you can see the vids, pics and status updates live of your friends. It’s a great way for friends, new and distant to connect. You can check in and see how people are doing, and find out their interests, etc. Our church has a facebook page which is a place where we share what is upcoming in ministry and messages.

The Pros of using Facebook include: connecting, sharing, conversation, family connections, church updates, etc.
The Cons- Be careful who your kids friend on facebook. Watch out for old flames wanting to “reconnect” with you, especially if you are married! Many divorces happen because cheating started on facebook. Finally, life is meant to be lived, get off the web and live!

Those are just a few about facebook.

Now twitter.

Twitter is basically people sharing their thoughts, ideas, humor, etc 140 characters or less with whomever follows them. Twitter is about who follows you and who you follow. Most twitter accounts have less than 100 followers, but follow 100’s. There are churches, pastors, entrepreneurs, leaders, teachers, businesses, celebrities, politics, newspapers, media outlets, etc on twitter. You can make lists to follow specific groups on twitter. A few months ago I was pretty anti-twitter. But once I jumped on, I found that I can follow people all over the world, and usually will receive news updates on twitter more quickly than tv, radio or even the web. I personally enjoy the humor on twitter, especially during this campaign season.

I hope that helps in better understanding Facebook and Twitter. My explanation is not exhaustive, but maybe you might be able to seen the benefit for the church and the world. It’s all about connecting, and for a church that says “We Make Disciples by Connecting People to God and Neighbor”, we should as Christians and as the church, try and share that message everywhere we can.

Go in peace and go with God.

Methodist

General Conference 2012: Clergy Effectiveness and Vital Churches: A Parable

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I Love Golf
I love to play golf.  Wait, I loved playing golf a few years ago.  Today, it’s a struggle. I was a pretty good golfer, regularly posting scores in the top 5% of all golfers.  I wasn’t the best by any means, but compared to everyone else, I was up there.
Then five years ago something happened.  My life began to change.  I was in a car accident that sidelined me for a while.  I married, and we soon had a beautiful son together.  Other commitments came into my life and golf was pushed way to the back.  I have not played golf much in the past few years.

Back On the Course
I finally was able to play golf this past week.  The day was perfect.  The temperature was in the low 80’s for the round, and I was playing with a guy I played in tournaments with before, and we push each other to shoot better.

We started the day off, no one really in front of us, no one pushing from behind.  Played the first three holes and the day looked great.

Then we noticed the course start to change.  The course was under repair, to put it lightly.  For some reason, the owner decided to strip all the fairways and change the grass.  This left grooves in between the old grass and the new grass.  The fairway was no longer the place to be, it was easier to play out of the rough or sand.

Things Were Not the Same
The course management that I had learned over the years was completely thrown out.  I had to scramble to make pars and bogeys.  The day was promising and the more we played, the changes became a huge impediment to enjoying a round of golf.

The course in a few years will supposedly be better, so the guys in the clubhouse late told us.  If we just waited 2-3 years and were patient, it would all be worth it.  They had done this to the greens a few years ago as well, but honestly, we could not tell much difference.

Out of Practice
I will admit that I was not as practiced as I could have been.  My drives were good.  My second or third shots were solid as well.  I really struggled was putting.  I three putted a bunch.  Putting is not like hitting a driver.  Putting is very technical and if you are really good at it, it’s about feel.   I had lost my touch and fine motor skills to put the ball in the hole.  It took me two to three putts, instead of one or two.  That adds up.  Mistake after mistake began to erode my confidence, and it started to show.
If I had just kept up practicing my putting these last few years, not even paying a whole round, it would have been a whole different story.

My Favorite Courses
Things in golf have really changed.  The equipment is drastically different since I purchased my last set of clubs just eight years ago.  My clubs still work ok for me, but there have been changes.
I addition to the equipment changing, courses all over the country are closing.  They are opening a few new courses in growing areas, but in general, we have less golf courses in the US today than we did just ten years ago.
Two of my favorite golf courses closed recently.  I had my best games on both of those courses.
I was sad at first, but it’s just the way it is.  Sure, I could have played more, joined the club, but I guess I was not that committed.

End of our Day
We both finished our rounds with a higher than usual score.  Why?  I know I was out of practice, but the course sure made it very difficult to enjoy the experience or even play better.  Courses are usually set up to challenge you, but this one was in terrible shape.  It wasn’t a challenge, it was a golfers worst nightmare.
As we left, my friend, a life long golfer remarked, “You know, I think we can be done playing here.  There are other courses we should play.”  I agree.

My Lesson
What I learned the other day is something I already know, and have known for a long time.

If I want to play better golf, I need to practice.  I also need to find courses that are in reasonably good shape that will challenge me.  I enjoy being challenged and working hard to achieve things.  Those courses are out there, I just have to find them and support them.  


For the UMC
Times have changed.  The world is different.  Many of our churches and pastors are unwilling to change and do not regularly practice healthy spiritual disciplines.  If we are not faithfully practicing, then our churches suffer and our communities suffer.

What churches and pastors need are a set of tools, practices and priorities that will yield fruitfulness and effectiveness in ministry and mission.

What the General Conference needs to do is give Annual Conferences, Bishops, Churches, Laity and Pastors the freedom to experiment.  That might mean changing structures, rules, procedures and eliminating some things that we hold dear.

If our true goal is to make disciples of Jesus Christ, then why do we focus on so many other things at General Conference?

I applaud the Missouri Conference for the effort our Directors, Bishop, Cabinet, Laity and Pastors.  We have implemented a strategy to “turn around” our decline.

That strategy has included: a big change in Annual Conference structure, the Healthy Church Initiative, Pastoral Leadership Development classes, Laity Leadership Development Classes and a willingness to embrace new forms of local church models.

People love God.  People want to love God.  People want to know God.  Let us put away tired arguments and tired fights and focus on something very simple.

Love God
Love Your Neighbor

Let us stop blaming, calling names and speaking poorly of each other.  It’s only out of love in Jesus Christ that we can work together.  That will allow us to call each other into accountability and make a difference by transforming lives in Jesus Christ.

My hope and prayer for this General Conference is that the healthy changes that need to be made will be without negativity and some feeling hurt.

Also, that once the decisions have been made, that we will leave united as one body, even though we may disagree about the changes, made or not made.

Go in peace and go with God.

Methodist

General Conference 2012- Final Thoughts: Disheartened, but Hopeful

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What Happened?
It came.  It went.  Little changed.  With 8 million dollars spent on a global gathering of United Methodists, some interesting stuff happened.
The worship services and preaching were excellent.  The United Methodist Church is a global church.
We are growing in Africa, so much that resources are scarce.  It might be the best investment the UMC can make, and yet, I feel we did not do enough.
Most every change that was made has already, or will soon be, challenged and sent to the Judicial Council.

The big initiatives that would really help us
Set Aside Bishop- did not pass
Structure Change- passed, but ruled unconstitutional by Judicial Council
Lower Budget 5%- passed, but how will it work now with the Structural changes ruled unconstitutional?
Guaranteed Appointments- passed, but challenged
Annual Conference structure changes- passed, but will probably be challenged.

Personal Reflections

After watching the first week and half of GC, I became disheartened.  Not about the UMC, the future of the UMC, the church I serve or the Christians I know.

I was disheartened by the legislative swamp and bureaucratic mess that unfolded as a small group of people seemed to filibuster and challenge anything and everything.  Some people have become good at the wrong things.  That is one of my biggest fears in ministry.  I pray I never become good at meaningless and trivial things that do not bring about transformational change in the church.

We have a wealth of talented and gifted leaders in the UMC.  A small number of Conferences in the United States grow every year.  Some others are on the path to growth.  Most have been in decline for years and show no chance of growing.

Can a gathering of 1000 people agree on anything?  The United States House of Representatives is only 435, the Senate 100, speaking for 300+ million.

Suggestions

Roberts Rules of Order should be tossed out as a guiding document for how function in legislative session.  I have no idea what to replace it with, but we need to do something.

One thousand is too large a group.  Why not limit it to 500?

With Plan A, B and UMC, we still could not figure out how to move toward change.  Can someone come up with something that can pass a Constitutional challenge?

Do we have too many seminaries?  Many are in decline.  How about 72 hours for an MDIV (I will keep pushing this as long as I live)

Do our General Agencies do what they were designed to do?  Are they still relevant to making disciples?

Final Thoughts

We have a great need for transformational leadership at General Conference and in the Episcopal Office.  My prayer for all delegations is that when they vote for Bishops they would seriously consider the following-

Will this person help the church make disciples?
Will this person refocus the efforts of the Conference toward leadership and discipleship?
What is this person’s track-record for making disciples and leadership?

Great and faithful leadership will help turn around the church.  We cannot continue to go in the direction we are headed, because within fifty years we will be no more.

Does the Methodist church still have something to say?  Is our expression of Christianity relevant?  I honestly and truly believe we have something relevant to say.  We have growing churches in Missouri. We continue to plant new congregations.  The United Methodist Church grew in Missouri last year.  It has not been easy, but it is possible with the right leadership in place and a well charted course.

I thank God I serve in Missouri.

Go in peace and go with God.

Church Blog, Methodist

General Conference 2012

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I Love Golf
I love to play golf.  Wait, I loved playing golf a few years ago.  Today, it’s a struggle. I was a pretty good golfer, regularly posting scores in the top 5% of all golfers.  I wasn’t the best by any means, but compared to everyone else, I was up there.
Then five years ago something happened.  My life began to change.  I was in a car accident that sidelined me for a while.  I married, and we soon had a beautiful son together.  Other commitments came into my life and golf was pushed way to the back.  I have not played golf much in the past few years.

Back On the Course
I finally was able to play golf this past week.  The day was perfect.  The temperature was in the low 80’s for the round, and I was playing with a guy I played in tournaments with before, and we push each other to shoot better.

We started the day off, no one really in front of us, no one pushing from behind.  Played the first three holes and the day looked great.

Then we noticed the course start to change.  The course was under repair, to put it lightly.  For some reason, the owner decided to strip all the fairways and change the grass.  This left grooves in between the old grass and the new grass.  The fairway was no longer the place to be, it was easier to play out of the rough or sand.

Things Were Not the Same
The course management that I had learned over the years was completely thrown out.  I had to scramble to make pars and bogeys.  The day was promising and the more we played, the changes became a huge impediment to enjoying a round of golf.

The course in a few years will supposedly be better, so the guys in the clubhouse late told us.  If we just waited 2-3 years and were patient, it would all be worth it.  They had done this to the greens a few years ago as well, but honestly, we could not tell much difference.

Out of Practice
I will admit that I was not as practiced as I could have been.  My drives were good.  My second or third shots were solid as well.  I really struggled was putting.  I three putted a bunch.  Putting is not like hitting a driver.  Putting is very technical and if you are really good at it, it’s about feel.   I had lost my touch and fine motor skills to put the ball in the hole.  It took me two to three putts, instead of one or two.  That adds up.  Mistake after mistake began to erode my confidence, and it started to show.
If I had just kept up practicing my putting these last few years, not even paying a whole round, it would have been a whole different story.

My Favorite Courses
Things in golf have really changed.  The equipment is drastically different since I purchased my last set of clubs just eight years ago.  My clubs still work ok for me, but there have been changes.
I addition to the equipment changing, courses all over the country are closing.  They are opening a few new courses in growing areas, but in general, we have less golf courses in the US today than we did just ten years ago.
Two of my favorite golf courses closed recently.  I had my best games on both of those courses.
I was sad at first, but it’s just the way it is.  Sure, I could have played more, joined the club, but I guess I was not that committed.

End of our Day
We both finished our rounds with a higher than usual score.  Why?  I know I was out of practice, but the course sure made it very difficult to enjoy the experience or even play better.  Courses are usually set up to challenge you, but this one was in terrible shape.  It wasn’t a challenge, it was a golfers worst nightmare.
As we left, my friend, a life long golfer remarked, “You know, I think we can be done playing here.  There are other courses we should play.”  I agree.

My Lesson
What I learned the other day is something I already know, and have known for a long time.

If I want to play better golf, I need to practice.  I also need to find courses that are in reasonably good shape that will challenge me.  I enjoy being challenged and working hard to achieve things.  Those courses are out there, I just have to find them and support them.  


For the UMC
Times have changed.  The world is different.  Many of our churches and pastors are unwilling to change and do not regularly practice healthy spiritual disciplines.  If we are not faithfully practicing, then our churches suffer and our communities suffer.

What churches and pastors need are a set of tools, practices and priorities that will yield fruitfulness and effectiveness in ministry and mission.

What the General Conference needs to do is give Annual Conferences, Bishops, Churches, Laity and Pastors the freedom to experiment.  That might mean changing structures, rules, procedures and eliminating some things that we hold dear.

If our true goal is to make disciples of Jesus Christ, then why do we focus on so many other things at General Conference?

I applaud the Missouri Conference for the effort our Directors, Bishop, Cabinet, Laity and Pastors.  We have implemented a strategy to “turn around” our decline.

That strategy has included: a big change in Annual Conference structure, the Healthy Church Initiative, Pastoral Leadership Development classes, Laity Leadership Development Classes and a willingness to embrace new forms of local church models.

People love God.  People want to love God.  People want to know God.  Let us put away tired arguments and tired fights and focus on something very simple.

Love God
Love Your Neighbor

Let us stop blaming, calling names and speaking poorly of each other.  It’s only out of love in Jesus Christ that we can work together.  That will allow us to call each other into accountability and make a difference by transforming lives in Jesus Christ.

My hope and prayer for this General Conference is that the healthy changes that need to be made will be without negativity and some feeling hurt.

Also, that once the decisions have been made, that we will leave united as one body, even though we may disagree about the changes, made or not made.

Go in peace and go with God.